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		<title>By: BA</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 01:17:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Christine, nice words; but it is not just &#039;positive thinking&#039; or psychology that gives us a peace. It is about A PERSON...that person who wishes to live IN us as we &#039;give to Him&#039; our &#039;life&#039; (Luke Chap. 9 verse 23 - 24)

Also for reflection: without HIM we can do NOTHING! Not one thing.

It&#039;s about &#039;the Spirit&#039; that lives, moves, and has being within. What makes someone live positively? Is someone &#039;a negative thinker&#039; who has been wounded by &#039;the world&#039; ...actually, I don&#039;t think so. I think one&#039;s &#039;vibes&#039; given off is a &#039;self defensiveness&#039; that comes from trusting the mere human and being &#039;hurt&#039; or &#039;betrayed&#039;
 
Is it wrong to be &#039;self defensive?&#039; Well...if one is always with all people...yes, it is wrong. But - God didn&#039;t make us to be fools...I think if a child burns his hand on a hot stove - that child is going to have a &#039;self protective&#039; feeling if he see&#039;s a stove again, or if a child gets bit by a big dog...it could color the child&#039;s outlook on dogs. (rightly or wrongly) Is the child or adult with a wound a negative person or a hurt person because they want to talk about what they are feeling to someone &#039;they think&#039; will listen.

It&#039;s not just &#039;thinking positively&#039; that takes away the &#039;negative&#039; feelings...it&#039;s A PERSON...a person who was stuck with spears, crowned with thorns, whipped, mocked and spat at. It is when we &#039;give our wounds of human living&#039; to Him (for those who understand, the word is Catholic sacrificial Mass) that we &#039;gain His strength and life in us&#039; &quot;By His wounds we are healed&quot; 1st Peter Chap 2 I believe you&#039;ll find the verse.

Yes...that&#039;s the key to over-coming the negative (not denying that negative qualities (bad and evil) exist in a la de da way...it&#039;s about living IN AND THROUGH &#039;THE TRUTH&#039; ... The Way, The Truth, and The Life...to know the truth of ourself...and give it &#039;to him&#039; (our weaknesses) and in exchange He provides us His Life...it is a LIFETIME transforming &#039;process&#039; ... and when He is part of us...we on&#039;t run from those who feel &#039;down&#039; we &#039;build them up&#039; (or rather not &#039;me&#039; but HIM who dwells in me...and that only gives us more 
&#039;go(o)d feeling&#039;

Now...if one encounters &#039;negative BAD&#039; persons...who have nothing to say of the good or of God...by all means ... run don&#039;t walk to the nearest exit...DO NOT GET PULLED DOWN to &#039;their darkness&#039; ... WALK IN HIS LIGHT...and TRUTH...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Christine, nice words; but it is not just &#8216;positive thinking&#8217; or psychology that gives us a peace. It is about A PERSON&#8230;that person who wishes to live IN us as we &#8216;give to Him&#8217; our &#8216;life&#8217; (Luke Chap. 9 verse 23 &#8211; 24)</p>
<p>Also for reflection: without HIM we can do NOTHING! Not one thing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s about &#8216;the Spirit&#8217; that lives, moves, and has being within. What makes someone live positively? Is someone &#8216;a negative thinker&#8217; who has been wounded by &#8216;the world&#8217; &#8230;actually, I don&#8217;t think so. I think one&#8217;s &#8216;vibes&#8217; given off is a &#8216;self defensiveness&#8217; that comes from trusting the mere human and being &#8216;hurt&#8217; or &#8216;betrayed&#8217;</p>
<p>Is it wrong to be &#8216;self defensive?&#8217; Well&#8230;if one is always with all people&#8230;yes, it is wrong. But &#8211; God didn&#8217;t make us to be fools&#8230;I think if a child burns his hand on a hot stove &#8211; that child is going to have a &#8216;self protective&#8217; feeling if he see&#8217;s a stove again, or if a child gets bit by a big dog&#8230;it could color the child&#8217;s outlook on dogs. (rightly or wrongly) Is the child or adult with a wound a negative person or a hurt person because they want to talk about what they are feeling to someone &#8216;they think&#8217; will listen.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not just &#8216;thinking positively&#8217; that takes away the &#8216;negative&#8217; feelings&#8230;it&#8217;s A PERSON&#8230;a person who was stuck with spears, crowned with thorns, whipped, mocked and spat at. It is when we &#8216;give our wounds of human living&#8217; to Him (for those who understand, the word is Catholic sacrificial Mass) that we &#8216;gain His strength and life in us&#8217; &#8220;By His wounds we are healed&#8221; 1st Peter Chap 2 I believe you&#8217;ll find the verse.</p>
<p>Yes&#8230;that&#8217;s the key to over-coming the negative (not denying that negative qualities (bad and evil) exist in a la de da way&#8230;it&#8217;s about living IN AND THROUGH &#8216;THE TRUTH&#8217; &#8230; The Way, The Truth, and The Life&#8230;to know the truth of ourself&#8230;and give it &#8216;to him&#8217; (our weaknesses) and in exchange He provides us His Life&#8230;it is a LIFETIME transforming &#8216;process&#8217; &#8230; and when He is part of us&#8230;we on&#8217;t run from those who feel &#8216;down&#8217; we &#8216;build them up&#8217; (or rather not &#8216;me&#8217; but HIM who dwells in me&#8230;and that only gives us more<br />
&#8216;go(o)d feeling&#8217;</p>
<p>Now&#8230;if one encounters &#8216;negative BAD&#8217; persons&#8230;who have nothing to say of the good or of God&#8230;by all means &#8230; run don&#8217;t walk to the nearest exit&#8230;DO NOT GET PULLED DOWN to &#8216;their darkness&#8217; &#8230; WALK IN HIS LIGHT&#8230;and TRUTH&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Ambielli</title>
		<link>http://www.thefeelingofnow.com/2008/11/02/effects-of-negative-people/comment-page-1/#comment-7</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Ambielli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 20:12:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t even have one picture on my desk at work. I really need to decorate my desk with photos. Fantastic article Christine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t even have one picture on my desk at work. I really need to decorate my desk with photos. Fantastic article Christine.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Szymanski</title>
		<link>http://www.thefeelingofnow.com/2008/11/02/effects-of-negative-people/comment-page-1/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Szymanski</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Nov 2008 04:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So that is why people have pictures around their desk of people or animals they love.  What a lovely insight about reality and dealing with negativism.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So that is why people have pictures around their desk of people or animals they love.  What a lovely insight about reality and dealing with negativism.</p>
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