Everyone gets jealous. Some people are more jealous than others. You can’t help the way you feel when a situation presents itself that makes you feel that way. However; being aware of how your reaction is seen by the other party will help you control it.

Jealousy doesn’t necessarily apply to our significant others, it also applies to family. If your kindergartner comes home telling you how much she loves her teacher, you get jealous. Your mother tells your other sibling how proud she is of them, you get jealous. Your friend recently got promoted in their job, you get jealous. Now on to your partner. He/she thinks a celebrity is attractive, you get jealous.

Some of you may think jealousy is a sign of strength towards your relationship when in fact it’s a sign of weakness and insecurity.  If you know that your partner, child, and parent loves you, there’s no need to get jealous.

When you get feelings of jealousy, don’t make the other party suffer from it. Instead, realize what you’re doing and take control. You know they love you, so put your trust in that love. Love… it’s a powerful thing.

Jealousy is the only vice that gives no pleasure.
~Anonymous

Tags: love, passion